How to get along with Costa Ricans
A few weeks ago I wrote an article about Costa Rica’s wonderful people. In it I basically that the country’s wonderful people are one of the reasons retirees and other should move here. However, if you do decide to move to Costa Rica there are certain rules you have to follow to get the most out of the country and get along with the locals. I have formulated these rules based on my observations during the 30 years I have lived here.
- Learn the language to the best of your ability to facilitate communication and avoid misunderstandings. Learning Spanish will open up a whole new window of opportunities and enrich your retirement years in Costa Rica.
- Try to understand the cultural differences and don’t attempt to change the culture because it won’t change for you. ‘When in Rome do as the Romans.”
- Don’t lend money to a Costa Rican. As they say in Spanish “Si quieres enemigos, presta plata a un amigo.” “If you want enemies, then lend money to a friend.” Costa Ricans are notorious for not paying personal debts.
- DON’T choose a Costa Rican business partner. Eight out of ten gringos who go into business with Costa Ricans end up getting the ”short end of the stick.” I have seen it over and over again. Ticos tend to go behind one’s back. It is a cultural thing.
- Don’t be overly generous, especially with your hired help. Don’t give them too many extras and gifts or you will spoil them and they will expect it all of the time. I am not saying to be mean or mistreat them, but don’t go overboard.
- Ticos generally tend to be “takers” and not “givers.”
Remember! The positive qualities of the Costa Ricans far outweigh the negative.

